I have an accepted return that the irs says they didn't receive

[dkh]

How long ago accepted ?   Actual Agent at IRS or the Where's My Refund portal ?

If you scroll back through posts you will find others with same/similar issue.  

It's a messed up year.

[JRC]

DITTO...

Same here..

State was Accepted but Federal "Where's my Refund" isn't showing up as received.

E-filed April 5th and accepted by IRS April 5th.

Are we having fun yet?

[Just-Lisa-Now-]

Generally means its been pulled into manual processing, so its not in the system yet.