Then Publication 503 must be incorrect.  Obviously there is a discrepancy between Publication 503 and your instructions for Form 2441.

The only solution is to make the ProConnect do what is required or utilize another program.  This is an area where Pro/connect could certainly improve.

For example, ProConnect does a poor job of collating information that could be used in a variety of ways when dealing with dependents, especially non-child dependents.

Since the individual may need care but is not disabled (can you say Joe Biden) ProConnect requires a user to enter false information to make the program do what it should be doing.  However, if the user does that, they are committing a felony.