"I hope this thread disappears, it just brings back memories of sad stories. Her sister lost their only son to Covid."

On the other hand, you had the opportunity to bring them to our attention, paying homage. It's when no one ever thinks of you, after you're gone, that is the saddest. I have a Nook that was a friend's mother's (both these ladies have now passed) and a bird book that was another friend's mother's. Tangible evidence that they live on, and I think of them every time I use their stuff.