Too me, the word "cancer" is the scariest word in the English language.  I don't know you personally, but I feel terrible for what you are going through.  I wish you the best of luck in your fight and I am hoping that you can achieve the best outcome possible.

If you are looking for some assistance it might be helpful to indicate what state you are in to potentially help narrow down what folks would be dealing with.  I think your willingness to look out for your clients at this stage of the game is an admirable trait.  Hopefully you will be able to locate someone to help you and your clients out.