"That stresses me out!!"

Really? Because I have lots of things other than an IRS Standardized Form, that stress me out. Have you looked at the form:

https://www.irs.gov/forms-pubs/about-form-1099-nec

Because the IRS controls this. It's been available in draft format and the instructions are there, as well as the current year format. I find that I can reduce stress by being informed.