Can we use her earned income in 2019 to calculate and to get EITC & ACTC for her?

That seems to be the way the law reads.

I think Pro Series should pop up EIC worksheet and Form 8812 in "Form in use" and "Red check" on "YES" or "NO" in line "Elect to use 2019 earned income for EIC and ACTC".

Yes, a pink 'error' would be handy.